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Let's Talk
About Sex

Because it's fun & awkward 

"Imagine a world where we approach conversation with open ears and open hearts, committed to hearing and understanding not only each other's stories, but also to widening and deepening our perception. Imagine if we recognized and appreciated the humanity within every conversation-- imagine if we sought it. My pulse flutters even considering the delicious risk."

-- Stuart Chittenden

Why join the conversation?

If you're like most people, talking about sex feels awkward, and asking for what you want feels even harder.

                                             is a small salon designed to work that muscle. Because I believe the first step to more pleasure is being able to talk about it.

When I tell people what I do out in the real world, I often see a spark of interest, and sometimes undeniable terror in their eyes. They aren't talking about this deeply personal part of themselves with just anyone, and I, a stranger, brought it up in public. The range of emotion makes sense. 

In my practice, I teach clients how to have conversations about intimacy with their lovers. How little skill most of us have with this communication might surprise you. Tightness in the body, shame, eagerness, dissociation -- these are common when the topic of sex comes up.

My goal is to ease some of that tension so we can reallocate it to where it belongs: as another tool for your pleasure, not what gets in the way.

Let's Talk About Sex

We'll explore questions like:

  • Building tension with a lover: What makes it electric, and what’s it like when the spark’s not there?

  • Your hottest sexual experiences and what made is so hot.

  • What you wish you're partner was or wasn't doing.

  • How to use sextech, toys, AI companions.

  • Dating & sex…

  • Navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM)?

  • The world of STI's: disclosure, testing, shame.

  • Performance anxiety.

  • Different abilities & changing bodies

  • Anything else you’re curious about, bring it in. 

Logistics

When & Where

Weekly, Tuesdays at 6:30 - 7:30 PM PST South Sebastopol office

Group Size

Just 6ish of us. There's no commitment. RSVP for the weeks that work for you and skip the ones that don't. The group refreshes each week.

Vibe

Honesty. Fumbling through what we want to share. Noticing turn-ons. Laughs. All are welcome, as long as you bring curiosity and respect.

How to Join

RSVP on partiful

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